Like, do you prefer to see how someone is in the sack before properly commiting to them?
- Yes. I like to make sure that we are sexually compatible.
- No. Sex is not a deal breaker/maker. We can work on it.
Most Helpful Guy
Personal and worldview compatibility, as well as her individual life dependability / reliability, are what I look at first. Sex is something that will always be awkward on first application, and will always require practice to improve. So it's low on the priorities list. However, if you can't trust her to meet you up much of anywhere without her flaking out constantly, or forgetting important things all the time, then no amount of sex will ever make up for that.1
Most Helpful Girl
Not at all. Sex is not the base/main pillar of a marriage, communication is! And when there is good communication and strong feelings, I believe there would be good sex so I don't need to "try before I buy" I would rather find a man with whom I can communicate and with I share strong feelings and respect.3