To make this short... Had a crush on a close guy friend. His girlfriend left him a few months ago, he got all flirty with me but I didn't do anything about it because I didn't want to be his rebound. During those months, he dated two girls (both of them ended up hating him, I don't know the reasons). During all that time he kept flirting with me, but whenever he liked a girl, he would kind of drop me and even call me sister or bestie. I simply got tired of that happening and decided to move on. Two or three weeks ago, while in class he showed me a chat with a girl he really liked, telling her he was drooling for her and what not. Apparently she accepted to go out with him to see, and I was actually very glad for him! The next day he comes up with "sometimes I think i like you a bit, i hope you don't stop talking to me for this" i said it was ok, i wasn't mad. He insisted into taking me out, after a week I went with him to the movies and he prevented me his friends, later he said "they adored you." the thing is... During the movies thing, he kept really distant, treated me like one of the guys and seemed to text another girl. I always had a bad gut feeling about him that simply won't go away, and all of my friends from college (all of them) think he's bad news too. He just gives me the creeps. I think, for the previous things he did, that he's just having me around until the other girls gives him a chance. Yesterday night I told him (a bit softer that this) "hey, can we pretend that the whole I like you thing never happened?" he said that he understood and wished me a good night, that we would talk about it tomorrow. Neither of us have said a thing. He also once said in a indirect way to have sex, without having taken me on a date, which made me think he just wants easy and casual sex. I think I did the right thing by telling him I prefer to be just friends. What do you people think? He confuses me so much.. Always calling me cute names and taking about other girls..
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It sounds like he's using you as a backup (feeding you enough to keep you around, but not actually dating you bc there's other potential out there), and I get the feeling that you know this too, deep down. This guy isn't some mystery to decipher, and hardly sounds decent because he doesn't mind letting you dangle. I'd go with that creepy guy feeling, and ditch him if I were you.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE