I kissed another guy. When he found out he slapped me. Is this ok?

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  • Yes, what you did was very very wrong, it was highly inappropriate but then for him slap you wasn't good and wasn't right either ( according to me at least). However I can understand his anger and it's also justified.

    What he could have done is to break up with you outright, but for some reason he chose to slap you instead.

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  • No, it's not ok to hit someone else not in true self-defense. Getting insulted, getting cheated on or your feelings hurt doesn't give anyone the rights to commit assault.

    What he should have done is straight forward dump you and ignore you. That would have been more effective than reacting. He's an idiot. Basically he's showing that he believes hitting solves things if someone gets under his skin. Maybe he would still have slapped you even if you didn't cheat. That's someone that doesn't have the sufficient skills to handle stressful situations.

    The amount of people of both genders excusing hitting another person not in self-defense is disappointing. Very disappointing.

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What Guys Said 31

  • Funny how different the poll is. Today a guy said his girlfriend slapped him when he told her he cheated, and everyone was ok with it... why things are different now?

    Though I don't condone violence, you cheated, so I'm not gonna complain if he slapped you, after all, you deserved it.

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  • A lot of questions come to mind about the circumstances of the kiss. Hitting you is a cowardly way to handle his emotions. You should dump him if you haven't already, he has some growing up to do.
    I would be mad too however. No matter how innocent the kiss, my trust would be a little shaken. I would start to worry about you cheating further.

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  • If a guy cheats on his girlfriend and she finds out and slaps him, is that acceptable?

    We tend to be more lenient with women and violence.

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  • so you cheated on someone and when they found they slapped you?

    violence is never ok but don't use his inexcusable action excuse your action

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  • not ok, but not terrible. Just put yourself in his place, maybe you would do the same. I wouldn't slap a girl because i am not stupid, but if i discovered my girl kissed another guy i would just end the relationship

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  • Nothing about any of this is okay. Everyone is in the wrong.

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  • Slap wasn't necessary, should have just blanked you and walked away.

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  • that´s what every girl would have done xD i guess it is. equality.

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  • Slapping is bad. But why would you be making out with other guys anyways?

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  • It is never OK to slap someone, Kissing someone maybe god depends on the people and the reason for the kiss.

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What Girls Said 27

  • Both of you are in the wrong. I think you should both cut contact with each other. He can't control his anger and you can't control your desires. You are obviously not compatable.

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  • Obviously you were wrong, you cheated on him, but using violence is also wrong, unless it's meant to be self defence.
    I think you're both better off without each other tbh. You obviously don't care about him since you cheated, and he doesn't seem emotionally stable right now.

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  • what you did was wrong; however, it did not give him the right to hit you, and the fact that he did means that he considers violence to be a normal response.

    if the situation were reversed (he cheated and you slapped him), my response would be the same. end it, learn from your mistakes, and move on.

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  • If the situation was switched and you would have slapped them as well. Then yeah you deserve it.

    You pulled a rotten move by cheating on him. Should have have just dumped him if your going to just kiss other dudes like it's nothing.

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  • No, it's not, really. Violence is never excusable, except in the case of self defence.
    However, you did something awful, and I can understand why he'd be angry enough to hit you. I hope he realises what a scummy person you are, and ditches your ass.

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  • Interesting now some guys say it's okay, men should never ever ever everrrrrrr slap a girl!!! If you do... you're a dick and a bitch!

    With that said, he should walk away instead of slapping your face. What a moron.

    Choose better guys.

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  • I mean... I frown on violence... but to be fair... you had it coming.

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  • Slapping you wasn't necessary. Violence is never okay. But he had his reasons. It was just a mistake of him to do that.

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  • Don't stay with anyone who will hit you, male or female.

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  • Violence against anyone for any reason beyond defending yourself is not okay, whatsoever.

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