however, I do really like being around him buuuut I just can't stare at him in the same adoring way. I don't really like his features, except his eye color. I mean, I'm not saying he's ugly by any means, I just myself do not think I feel physically attracted or compatible with him. When we were making out, he whispered that he wished I wanted him as badly as he wants me, and that made me sad because it's the truth.
Am i shallow? I feel terrible that this is the reason I want to cut things off.
Most Helpful Guy
You sound a little shallow (I wasn't going to say so, but geez complaining his eyes aren't the right color?) but you can't force yourself to like someone - in the end it doesn't matter why you aren't feeling it just that you aren't and that kinda means you should cut things off so as to not lead him on.
Most Helpful Girl
Your not shallow. You don't even sound shallow. If anything you should be proud, your being honest with yourself your not attracted to this guy emotionally, which is okay. You can't just force yourself to like someones appearance and plus there are too many guys in this world to be stuck with just one you aren't even physically attracted to. He'll find a nice girl