I went on a second date with a nice girl I met online; we ended up sleeping together (no big deal, that doesn't throw me off) and generally had a good time. Thing is, is that she said she "liked me" the morning after... I found it both rather flattering and unexpected, and I eventually said something along the lines of "I've had a good time, I like you too." Now, I don't know if she's simply expressing her genuine interest or if this is a red flag. She's a very open, straightforward person, whereas I'm quite guarded. On the dates we have talked about some of our past dating history; she had come out of a longterm relationship a few months back and talked about how she "fell out of love." When she was telling me about her last relationship, I joked to her "you're not going to start crying are you?" in reference to a bad date she'd had a couple of weeks ago with a bloke who started sobbing about his ex in front of her. She found my joke funny.
Nevertheless, she's never come across as clingy; she gives me space and doesn't constantly text me. She's a nice girl; attractive, polite, kind and has good intentions, and I believe her openness is simply her personality. But then again, people can see it differently from the outside, hence my posting on here. I'm not looking for a friends with benefits, and neither is she, so I want to make sure she's worth seeing again.
My main questions are: she hasn't been in the dating field for a long time, so maybe this is all quite new again? Or is she being desperate? Should I persue her still?
Most Helpful Girl
If you feel she is than voice it!0
Most Helpful Guy
Look bro,,, u hooked up with her on 2nd date.. u have played it extremely right.
And u are letting her doing the calling and texting and its awesome.
Now she is starting to fall in love with u...
if u keep dating her and hooking up with her.. after 3-4 dates... she will be head over heels in love with u and will ask u to be exclusive.
Its upto u to decide... well if a woman says "i like u" after hooking up its completely normal...
She is out of a long term relation which means her emotions will still be raw and her ex will still be in her mind... nevertheless if u do what ur doing.. she will feel attraction for u.
Date her for few months before falling into relationship shit.0
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