The other day my ex asked me if I have been to any new restaurants lately. Was she trying to send a message or was she just trying to make conversation? I felt as though she was trying to find out if I have been going on dates. In the last month she has question me on my dating situation 3x. I told her I was going to the movies tonight and she said "sounds like a date ". This time I called her out and why she keeps trying to find out about my dating situation since she broke up with me. She ended going on saying she's moved on and is only interested in being friends. She reversed it on me saying that I haven't let go of the past and she's only asking as a friend. I feel as though she isn't being truthful about moving on and may still have feelings. I believe she doesn't want to admit she misses me.
Why does my ex ask me?
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I personally think you need to get rid of her for a little bit, because clearly both of you still have feelings but clearly she's confused about what she wants and the only way it's going to fix is if she does her own thing. So the best thing you can do is simply get rid of her and just let her know that you need time for yourself as you're busy nowadays.
I would just start enjoying life and not focus on her and in a couple of months I mean if you still feel interested in her than so message her and just have a casual conversation and see whats up.
Because right now it seems all you're doing is wasting your time and she's just trying to figure out if you're still interested into her, while she's confused and keeps doing her own thing knowing she's still got you as a backup plan. So I would remove that option and simply get rid of yourself for a couple of months and than if you are still wanting to be with her than go speak to her, if not I suggest not being friends as it just seems like a waste of time and going to end sooner or later.1
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