So long story short, I met this guy in Mexico while I was there on vacation that I really like. We kissed, had a fun time, and traded information. Ever since then we have been messaging each other and getting to know one another better. I know this is a bit crazy, but I'm flying out there in a month to go see him... He offered to let me stay at his place for a week. My question is, do you think he expects me to have sex with him? I haven't really decided whether that is something I'm going to do or not... So e usually know what that means haha.
Most Helpful Guy
Most likely yes. You need to know if you want to do so before heading there and let him know if you do not intend on having sex.0
Most Helpful Girl
He might have that on his mind, but it doesn't mean that it has to happen. Be upfront with him, if you want to take it slow, or you're not ready, let him know. It might be easier to tell him ahead of time, sometimes it can be awkward to find the right moment to say that. Also, you can get an idea of his expectations from his response. If you're unsure whether you want to, don't do it.0