Hey so, I have a long distance boyfriend and were dating for 1 year and 3 months now. Back when we were starting the relationship, around 2-4 months. I dont really remember, I wasn't sure of our situation. I was doubting a lot. A lot of things. If the feeling is real. If we will really work this out and meet. But one things for sure, I didn't really love him. I just like him. But I still pushed through because Im willing to take the risks of long distance and learn to love him. we fought a lot because our situation is really hard. On one of our fights, i got really mad and I cheated on him with another long distance friend. Through Skype. I told my boyfriend about it and he got upset but wasn't mad. We cotinued the relationship and now were sure of our feelings we rarely fight that much and we love each other now and planning to meet in person on September. But memories are haunting him down and he feels sad everytime he remembers the cheating thing and now I feel really really really bad. I dont know if I really deserve to be in this place even now that I love him a lot. Answers are much appreciated.
Most Helpful Guy
No they dont. It's the ultimate betrayal1
Most Helpful Girl
Only the 2 people in the relationship can decide. Absolutes can be easy to give as advice in situations like these but they're rarely cut and dry. I believe in 2nd chances.1