Why do people have back up people if a relationship goes sour? Do most people this? If so why and do those back up plans ever work?
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I voted b because I hope it's abnormal.
But it's probably A. My ex was like that. He said because "you don't leave your job until you've found another one".
I told him maybe he's had such "bad luck" in his relationships because he can't focus on just one woman. He's too insecure to give himself completely to one person.
This is how I feel about anyone who has "plan bs". Plan B= plain bs. You need to realize that a relationship, unless specifically stated and agreed upon to be "open" or polyamorous, is about you and your partner. You can't leave them behind. You can't just be selfish anymore. If you don't see that person is for you, then leave them for good.0