I am a 21 year old guy. I have never kissed a girl or even held hands with a girl unless it was forced (eg through a game).
I am fairly average looking. I wear glasses and weigh about 50 kg. I am also an Indian guy who lives in South Africa.
I am an introvert and can be quiet but I am not the most anti-social guy. I have taken three girls out for coffee. I have never asked a girl to be my girlfriend directly but I did take three out for coffee.
With two of them, they didn't follow up on my attempts to meet again after that. With one, she did but she saw me as a friend and started telling me about her crushes so I stopped responding to her.
To be honest, the girls usually end up doing more talking than me though.
Most Helpful Girl
I do not consider that bad or weird.1
Most Helpful Guy
No, just you have morals, standards, respect, and responsibilities. I'm 26 and suck at conversations, never had a girlfriend longer than 3 months, and I never had sex. Sooo. I really don't care about all that yet. Just live your life the way you know how and better yourself.1