I hate how my voice sounds and I fear that I sound like a dude and it will turn off guys. And don't say guys aren't attracted to me because I'm chubby because I'm well aware of that and I'm actively trying to solve that problem.
Most Helpful Guy
What makes you think your voice is too deep? Chicks with deep voices are sexy. As are chicks with accents. There's two big things in you favor.
Do you use vulgar language? Do you speak too fast and run your words together? Do you speak too loudly? If so, don't. Plain and simple
Meter your speed and use proper pronunciation/elocution. Play sentences like they're an instrument. And, certainly don't use a recording of your voice for a reference.
Check out how, especially, news people speak. They've all curbed their regional accents to be what is considered proper "American English". Basically a mid-western affect with no noticeable regional accents, and notice how they pronounce every word properly, even when speaking quickly. It's amazing. And it's something they've practiced and been taught. They are from all parts of the country, but speak the same; sort of like "The Queens English" Every country has their standard formally accepted speech. Just a boring FYI.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Believe me your voice is fine! Just like you wish you had a higher voice, girls who have higher voices wish they had low, husky seductive voices (I am one). It's a mind thing, so don't worry about it. You probably sound awesome to other people.0