This guy I've been dating told me yesterday he didn't see us being in a relationship long term and that he just wanted to be friends. Of course that took my by surprise because just the day before that he told me he did. We got into huge argument about via text and when I told him that if he did not see us going anywhere he should have told me as soon as he felt that way and I felt that he wasted my time, time I could have used to be getting to know other people. After tons of back forth still I stopped communication with him and the he apologized telling me he made a mistake and asked if we could discuss things in private because he feels he didn't give me a chance and how he was emotionally unavailable. I agreed to meet him and we talked and he told me he wanted to be a relationship. I'm confused and I can't tell if he's just playing a game or what. I asked him how he could go from not wanting to be with me to wanting to be with me in matter of 8 hours and he told me that everything I said to him during the argument was right and he wasn't being open to me. I'm not sure if I can emotionally invest in someone who can just change like that. I want to be with him but I also want some form of security knowing he won't just up and change his mind when he gets scared. Any advice?
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I'd move on I mean if he doesn't know what he wants and goes back and forth about something serious like that so fast somethings wrong.1