I love my boyfriend and he loves me. The problem is he wants premarital cohabitation but I am totally against it. I really want to have a normal family (marriage).
I have some male acquaintances that are in love with me and want to marry me. I can choose a husband among them but I don't love any of them. In this case marriage without love is pointless. Or maybe I will start to forget my boyfriend and love my husband?
Dating someone who doesn't want marriage even though loves me is pointles. But maybe he will change his mind?
I am so depressed. I don't know what to do. if you can help me then I will be soooo thankful to you.
- yes because you want to get married11%(1)25%(5)Vote36%(4)
- no because you can't marry a guy you don't love89%(8)75%(15)Vote64%(7)
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You said it yourself "MAYBE". There's no guarantee that you will fall in love with your husband after marriage. Why take such risk? It's a big decision. What if the guy you marry turns out to be way worse than you think? YOLO so don't take such risks.
About your boyfriend, try to convince him to marry. If nothing works out then leave him. There's no point in relationship if you both want different things. Look for someone new and if you fall in love then marry that guy.
Trust me, in my short life I've seen many loveless marriages and it's not good for anyone involved including family and children.0
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