Or is it just bullshit? The last girls that i've chased have all rejected me so now i'm going to not chase them. I;m going to focus on myself from now on like in school (university senior) and making money.
Most Helpful Girl
It isn't a case of " chasing" someone. It's more to do with showing signs of interest. You can't be expected to pursue someone if they seem indifferent towards you.
I don't expect a guy to chase me, but I'd expect him to intitate at times and show signs of interest... if he liked me. If not, then I'd assume he wasn't interested. So I think it's important for both people to initiate , and show they are interested in each other.1
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think it works. Not chasing girls would decrease your chances of getting dates. So in general you want to chase girls, you can initiate a conversation, show interest, ask if she wants to exchange contact, suggest on a gathering etc. You should keep chasing, and hopefully one day a girl will want a relationship with you. And if a girl rejects you, you can continue to be friends, tell her u think u are a wonderland boyfriend and ask her if she has any single female friends who is looking.0