Gonna try to keep this short. This chick and i met in 2013 on kik. I was 14, and really digged her. After a yr thats when we started fighting over useless shit. She admitted after a fight that she lied about her pics, location, and her name. I was gutted, wanted to get the absaloute fuck out of there. But i stayed because i was inlove with her. Forwarding to now , im 17 soon, i party, get shitfaced drunk and im your average horny teenager. I do have sex with women, so its not like i can't get girls. I just can't get the very one that i want, so i sleep around to forget about her. She knows i sleep with a lot of girls, doesn't like it but lets it go. I know she has things with a lot of guys as well which pisses me off but at the end of the day we love eachother. she's sexy as fuck, but we fight so thats the only downside. I haven't always been good to her, an asshole infact (went through depression and my mums battle with cancer) but she always stayed. I have lost a lot of feelings due to fights so im really confused if i wanna meet her and start something or not. I feel as if this i would never forget this girl, as she's deep in my heart ( i sound like a pussy i know haha ) And i have cried over her before ( dont like admitting it ) because i was scared to lose her. I get that im confusing, as i can be really cold with her and then loving anoher time. She even asked me if we should just giveup and stop talking because of how bad the fights were.
I need someones advice on what to do, because im torn wheher to leave or meet her and pursure something.
Any help would be appreciated, Cheers.
Most Helpful Girl
Nope. You need to just drop this relationship like a ticking time bomb becuse that's what it is. She lied to you in the beginning about who she was. GIANT ASS RED FLAG!!! You say you stayed because you loved her, but the person you fell in love with is a lie. It doesn't matter if she told you some things that were true, she lied. Now you sleep with other girls. That isn't healthy. You don't value the relationship enough to remain faithful. You say she doesn't like it, but you still do it. You are blatantly disrepecting her by doing that. Kind of a douche move. What's even doucheyer is that she sleeps with other guys too. So yeah, she also sucks because you don't like it. But guess what, you have absolutely no room to complain because you're sleeping with other girls as well. You say she's sexy, but that isn't a reason to stay in a relationship. You guys can't stop fighting online before you even have a relationship. How the hell do you expect for things to play out if you guys meet in real life?
Bottom line, this isn't healthy. You need to end things and take time to figure out what the hell you want in an relationship and whether or not you're willing to keep your dick in your pants when you're around other girls. If you don't, then you're going to be in for a world of hurt and you'll leave plenty of other girls who don't deserve to be hurt by a guy like you completely heartbroken.0
Most Helpful Guy
I thought you were going to keep it short0