I am a really attractive guy (I've done modeling before, and most girls agree that I am one of the best looking guys around). I've turned down tons of attractive women because they dont meet my standards for personality, they are nice girls but when they dress like sluts, and act really annoying there is no way I am going to go out with them. I recently met this girl though who isn't attractive at all, the first time I met her I was like "Wow this girl is ugly", but as I got to know her I realized she is such a kind, and genuine person, and she was so much better then the rabble of girls that I had gotten previously. Those girls were attractive, but they were so fake both physically and emotionally. Anyway I get a lot of looks when I walk around with her, and I am just trying to figure out what people think when they see a guy as good looking as me, with a girl like her. What are your thoughts when you see something like this?
Most Helpful Girl
It honestly makes me angry. Not just with hot guys, but with any guy. I hate when guys pick an ugly girl over a pretty one, especially if they pick a butterface. Ugly women should only be used as a pump or dump or a last resort. I'm pretty, but sometimes because of my weight, guys turned me down. My boyfriend right now told me the first thing he noticed about me was how pretty my face is.
For you, I kind of get it. I mean, it's always good to like the girls personality. So I can admire that. What I hate is if a guy picks a girl because she is thin but her face isn't pretty. This one guy I know rejected me for a girl because she works out everyday and eats healthy. However, her face is ugly. So he shouldn't have picked her. My boyfriend right now has good taste. I'm glad the other guy rejected me because I dodged a bullet there.
I think people will judge you at first, but if they know it's because of her personality than they'll get over it. As long as she's not butterface or something I think it's fine.0
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Most Helpful Guy
My thoughts? "Wow. The value discrepancy between males and females has hit an all time high." Basically, I would think "So a chick who is a 3 is equal in value to a male that's a 10."
In essence, I would probably think that the hot guy is some kind of fucked up or the ugly girl is just a tool or a friend.
An ugly guy with a hot girl makes sense. Women don't look at attractiveness as males do. But, it'd be really confusing to me to see a very attractive guy with an ugly girl. The only conclusion I could make without knowing them is that the guy has some serious flaws that attractive women see in him and dislike, so he can only pull an ugly girl.
Though. One of my childhood best friends pulled a lot of hot chicks. He banged the hottest of the hot. Then he got married to an overweight, yet granted super intelligent woman. She wasn't attractive, at all. I really seriously wondered why he would marry her. That's totally anti-male. I had just chalked it up to his 180 IQ, to him being able to transcend baser instincts due to his high cognitive ability. But. I don't know.
You used an oxford comma, so perhaps you're the same as my childhood friend and capable of transcending your baser instincts. Oup. Nope. Run on sentence. Doesn't prove anything, just sayin'.0