I have been dating this guy for couple years now. We do all the things a couple does. Talked about marriage kids... I met his family and he met my siblings. We don't hide from the public but he still wants to call us "friends"... We have our ups and downs. I try to be patient and try not to force but it seems like every time we have sex he gets distant. He has a past of relationship that did not work and people who have left him. Is there a miracle? I keep telling him that I'm not going anywhere but it seems like that's not enough. Plus he was injured and and trying to finally recover financially. I love him and I really want this to work. What would you need from your lover if you struggled with being a commitment phobe?
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If you Care about him Unconditionally, patience is Virtue and the only Best from the rest you can do for Now Somehow... He is Scared at Getting too close to Someone and every time you both have Sex, it Seems to Show with Joe.
However, a girl can get Old waiting for Maybes and Nothing in life but Death and taxes. It's totally up to you if you want to stick Around Town to see if a "Miracle" will Happen or Begin your own Beguine of Focusing on You and Finding Someone Special who Wants what you Want right Away Today.
Good luck. xx2