So I get along super well with this girl. She is perfect for me in every way. Charming, funny, athletic, nice. In recent weeks we have gotten really close. Whenever we talk, we can go on forever. One topic leads to another which leads to another. Essentially, it is one of those great friendships so that no matter where you are or what you are doing, you enjoy spending time with the other person. I honestly believe that if I asked her to go out with me she would say yes. As I said, she fits almost perfectly as that perfect friend (to be girlfriend). However, I don't have a crush on her. It is weird, whenever I am around her, we get along really well. Yet, I never get that spark. That flutter when she looks or smiles at me. The dilemma I am having is if we should go out. If we do, I want to be fully committed and I am afraid that I won't be. However, if I leave things as they are, will she feel that I am leaving her hanging? Why don't I have a crush on her, when my brain is telling me that I should. Any help would be appreciated!
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I think you should tell her how you feel about her and then take it from there. Evaluate how she takes it, whether you should be friends, dating, or even dating but slowly one step at a time. Confidence is key to getting your final answer. Also you will never know until you give her chance and really get to know her. There is more behind a person then a simple conversation or observation. Like for example trying new foods or new activities. She could be the one or she could simply just be a friend it all depends on how far you are willing to take it. Not how you see each other but, how she makes an impact in your life. Does she lift your spirits? Does she make you a happier person?0
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