I'm really upset right now. My boyfriend fell asleep on the couch; I was just trying to get him up to go to bed so he would be more comfortable and then he said "why won't you just leave me alone!"
I feel really extremely hurt by this. All I ever do is want to please him and make him happy and its heart wrenching when that person tells you to leave them alone. It's like everything I do is for nothing and is not appreciated.
Im really sad and hurt. He is currently sleeping in bed and I am crying in bed.
Why would he say this to me after everything I do...
Most Helpful Guy
Often, when a guy is tired, he is only thinking of the moment, and at that moment he was trying to stay asleep, not get up and move. In the morning, or whenever, when he thinks about it, he would probably wish he had listened to you. But at that moment he is thinking only of being tired and wanting to be left alone. Pushing him at that moment will only make him madder! Leave him be if he says that.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'd just respect what he asked , and leave him alone. Then when he seemed in a better frame of mind, I'd try to encourage him to talk me about it .0