The guys I have dated, I met them online.
one guy, I realized I was a side chic all along. This new guy that I dropped a month ago, he didn't really prioritize me so i knew that I was just a side since I am so experienced with the dating game.. It sucks, it's like am I not girlfriend material? Funny thing is and probably the most annoying is the other guy honestly has no reason to be a player- douche ain't even that good looking. I'm over him now but back then I was so heartbroken over the situation
Most Helpful Guy
hmm.. it could be you. don't really know enough about you to judge further.0
Most Helpful Girl
Because you allow guys to treat you like the side chick and you don't demand better.
You need to communicate with them and set boundaries regarding what you will and won't tolerate.
Are you a push over? Do you have a hard time saying "no"? Do you allow them to only reach out to you late in the evening? Do you only ever do what's convenient for him? Do you have sex too soon into the relationship? Do you do all the planning in terms of hanging out?
If you don't want to be the side chick, then don't allow yourself to be treated like one.2