Let say a man goes out on several dates with a girl and shelves out cash paying for these dates. The woman in question does not pay for anything but eventually hits him with "sorry. I'm just not feeling any chemistry" or some variation to signal rejection.
Should the woman compensate the man by giving him back the money he wasted on dates with her or no?
- Pay the guy back29%(12)40%(46)Vote47%(34)
- No it's fine the way it is71%(30)60%(69)Vote53%(39)
Most Helpful Girl
He chose to spend all that money... money spent on dates fall under the gift rule - you can't ask for it back once it's given/spent.
That said, it's not fucking cool to go on dates just to get a free meal or movie or whatever. I have known chicks who have done that. Buuuuut there are assholes of both genders and sometimes people get duped or taken advantage of - it's people's responsibility to learn from those experiences.0