Are there any good guys left in the world? I was dumped two months ago by my 2 close to 3 year relationship boyfriend now ex boy friend I was still holding on because he said he loved me and wanted to stay close but did believe I deserved better, as a resort to him messing up he took on drugs and drinking and lead me to beleven that he still loved me but just wasn't ready to be with me. He was my first love and everything. Our relationship had its ups and downs but was good especially the 6 months before he broke up with me. Anyway I recently found out he slept with someone or believe he did as he has hickies. We used to still talk and he would ask me out on dates to the movies or dinner or just a drive but stopped during spring break. So I asked him if he was speaking to someone and hooking up with them so I could just give up seeing as if he can have sex with someone else he doesn't love me (he knew I was open to sex we hooked up twice before) he responded with he didn't have to answer the question and I can think what I want but that he is single
And he is however because of all the things he said and did I believed part of him still wanted to be with me and that we still had a chance after graduaction.
I'm really just tryinf to move on I have deleted his number and text messages. I feel like there are no good guys out there and the ones who are. Are with girls who are bogaz. I'm afraid I will end up alone or that the guys in my generation will just get worse and worse. They are either disrespectful, only want to fuck around or just have issues.
I've hung out with this other guy 4 times since our break up but I don't think he's the type to want anything serious and I don't think I have a chance with a guy like him.
I just want to know if there are guys out there that are good or at least decent. You have your flaws your not perfect. But you respect your girl and don't let others disrespect her you are loyal and honest and at least try to make her happy
Most Helpful Guy
Well I would never brag or nothing that I am a better guy then any other, but I am one that does get along well with the ladies, and I still to this day date even tho after the fall I had left me wearing couple of different garments that I used to wear but I am honest to my lady friends about that right off the bat, before any date takes place and when I have told them this it has made no difference, and not one date has declined because of what I wear, I also would never cheat or stray on the women I am with and treat them all with the respect they deserve.
And l listen to them when they want to talk and am an honest guy and I expect the same thing back from them and have always got it, I like to take my dates usually to dinner, a movie, then somewhere to dance.. on a few it was all three.. to my way of thinking honesty is always the best policy.. with that tool a person can go a long ways.. it has always worked for me.. take care now.. hope everything what ever you do down the road.. works out for you1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, there are some good guys left out there. Not the self proclaimed ones that are all talk, but when it comes down to their actions they aren't exactly "nice" or "good". But genuine good guys that actually respect others and show kindness, I know some of those.0