So the last time I saw my boyfriend was 1.5 weeks ago. He told me last night that he wanted some space until Tuesday where I am going to his house (I'm on Uni break) and we will spend 6 days together. Usually we spend 2-3 days a week together and other days text/call sometimes, not much though. He said he was upset at how some of his friends whom he ditched have not responded when he messaged to apologise and I'm scared it's a girl or an ex that he wants to get in contact with?
So is something fishy going on? When we spoke last night it was great and we ended it on a happy note. And he doesn't really text/call anyone besides me.
Most Helpful Guy
Not necessarily. It might just mean you need time alone to think and consider, because right now the emotions around whatever issue are just too heavy and time alone will make it easier to process.
Now after that person has come to a decision, that decision might be to break up. But that's no guarantee. It does happen however. Personally, I've had relationships where I do wish I took some space before making a decision. Because I didn't fully think it out and later regretted (somewhat) my decision.0
Most Helpful Girl
Don't overthink it too much. He has some issues that he wants to face alone. He will tell you when he wants to, it's best to not force it out of him. Give him time, and just enjoy the time you guys spend together during those 6 days. You don't want to give him anymore stress on top of him already feeling unwell. Keep yourself busy, do some hobbies, just relax. It doesn't hurt to give him small messages and tell him that you miss him or that you're thinking about him. Small simple messages mean a lot.0