I wish it was that easy to just drop my feelings tbh. Unlike your guy he is in college though but he doesn't seem to have a job (I think his family has money). In my case he just has a high school mentality, appears to be jealous/territorial of me even though we aren't even dating, bad at texting/calling back, and plays mind games with me. He is also very selfish and lazy in bed but that might be a different story.
It is frustrating and I am not even dating him. I don't know why I like him so much when I get those feelings of frustration.
No one is ever entirely good or bad; everyone has qualities (which in your case is 'the reason you like him'), AND faults (here, the immaturity). The key in your choice making is to figure out which side wins over the other.
That's the thing I don't know if I can. When I am reminded of his immaturity I am super turned off but in the end I still have feelings for him so it's complicated. We aren't dating anyway so I don't expect anything.
Okay, read a comment below you left of what you mean by immature.. He's not worth your time. Even if you have feelings for him, they will fade over time. Unless you have a plan to talk to him and he plans to improve this isn't worth it.
I hope you right.
In my case I'm referring to having a high school mentality in college, being selfish and lazy in bed, playing mind games, and having bad communication skills.
Got me at mind games. Dump
We aren't datingAnother one is he seems to be jealous/territorial of meNeed I remind you we aren't even dating
Um.. Talk to him maybe ask him to change his ways?
To the point where he has a high school mentality, is selfish and lazy in bed, plays games, and is bad at communication (texting/calling back).
Ah thanks, well seems like your boyfriend is a badboy or he acts like a one
Lol he's not my boyfriend
lol then maybe he plays hard to get!
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
Where does this statistic come from?
every day life
That's the thing, I definitely have been let down and we aren't even dating. I wish these feelings would disappear.
In my case:Selfish/lazy in bedPlays mind games/bad at texting/callingHas a high school mentalityAppears to be jealous/territorial of me even though we aren't datingThat way
Immature in a way where his not sorting out his future? Um I've been with someone who's made bad choices in their life without listening to my advice, I think it was hard to see they weren't on the right path but I can't really control how they are. If they want to do better for themselves they would seek it out. It's not wrong to still have feelings for him, but you'd know it won't work out in the future if things haven't changed.
Well no I wouldn't say he isn't sorting out his future.
The only opinion from guys was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!