I don't mind kissing on the first date if I'm attracted to that person. But recently, I went on a date and wasn't attracted to him whatsoever. He kissed me by surprise and I had to force myself to at least last a second before pulling away and making a silly excuse "no kissing on the first date" he gave me a hug and wanted to kiss me again, which I then moved my mouth away from him so he kissed my neck. Then i pulled away from the hug and he kissed me again but this time I quickly pulled away. I thought that was so weird that he didn't get that I didn't want to kiss him. So I'm asking this question, just out of curiosity, how do you know when you should kiss someone on the first date? Maybe I was giving mixed signals.