is it acceptable if I were to ask a guy out to the movies or do I have to wait for a guy to ask me out?
Depends on a couple factors. Do you know him? like are y'all cool. Or what y'all relationship is? Are y'all close friends or just passing accuantices every situation is different. It doesn't matter for the most part. It just can't be out of the blue, and since you are the one wanting the date you should initiate it. Who knows when the other person would ask something like that. Easiest way is just to bring up movies in general or the movie you are planning to see, and than ask on his opinion on it. Then about how you are planning to see it, and if they tring to come too. Just stretch the conversation a little. That right there is if you are a little closer and that is just one way, again it depends on y'all relationship. Never mind that though, you didn't ask how to ask him to the movies. There I go just going off on tangents noone asked for. Yeah, so like I said you should just ask him, unless you know they are interested in you, that's a whole another paragraph you didn't ask for
thank you! your advice is great! I also wanted to see if we end up making out could I take it farther, such as going to his house after and going all the way or just oral or something?
Just knocking everything out all at once huh? It's cool you know what your doing. Now if you want this too happen after you kiss it's still going to be easy if he is like most teenage guysz as long as you don't care about him thinking your easy. Now for the oral, just a few teasing touches on his upper thigh, and close to his crouch just as a test. If he doesn't push a way start stroking his slightly graze than undeterred stroke his package. If he still doesn't stop you or make any signs of not wanting it, than you have full permission to just go do whatever. Most of the times they would have already sent you to it by then. The house part is more tricky, since he is still a teenager. That has to be worked out before hand, to see if it is feasible. I am almost completely sure though if you give him oral he will find a way to get you over his house soon. Don't worry about that too much, hint at it and he should do the rest
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I've been hinting at a guy that I want to hang out with him and he's showing interest in me also. I'll see if I can make some plans with him tomorrow.
That's good, makes me feel kind of pointless now since you seem to have everything down pat already. If you are really trying to go to the movies, just talk about the movies and wanting to go, he should have so many openings to ask you out. Anyway good luck.
haha thank you.. I've just obviously never been in a relationship and I want to rush things with guys that I barely know. I end up acting like an idiot and I'll never talk to the guys again. I really like this guy but the only thing that's stopping me is that he just got out of a relationship with my really good friend. He's been really flirty with me though and I might as well go for it.
If you feel bad about rushing a relationship with this guy then don't. If he is talking with his ex-girlfriends friend right after they got out of a relationship, then he probably doesn't care if you are going fast.
I'm "into" a lot of guys but really I just want to make out with them and do other stuff, but most of them are the "serious relationship" type. I don't want to be in a relationship just a friends with benefits thing.
Damn, it's literally the opposite where I am from. Most girls want a serious relationship, and guys are usually the ones who mostly just want pleasure.
I think I just want attention from a male and I get all sexual and weird. I'm in love with the idea of love, if that makes any sense. But because of that I've pushed the idea of a relationship out of my head because I've already been heartbroken once.
Tell them that your Intrested in them sexually and only sexually and tell them upfront that you want to be friends with benefits but no relationship it'd be easier to say this over text by the way less nerve cracking
@Future2917 I have a good reputation at school and I'm scared if I start becoming "sexually active" my whole school would freak out.
I mean I can't tell you how you feel but you could find what you are desiring with this guy. If you don't your still young so it's not like you don't have time for whatever to happen, and unexpected things to pop-up. For now though you should probably just find the attention you want, than maybe try something from there if you feel like it.
Then you can just tell one of them and tell them to keep it a secret or just give up lmaoooo
After this week I'll try my best to tell my best friend how I feel and make sure he knows I'm not joking around.
Anymore questions or should I stop being on the look out for notifications.
I didn't talk to my best friend today about actually liking him but he did wish me luck with a dance tryout. Is he into me yet? 😂 I'm in love with my best friend and I need to stop these feelings.
Well you don't have to do anything immediately, but you probably shouldn't push it off anymore. Plus dance tryouts? Was it an open tryout where anyone could just come, or only open for the people actually trying out?
Closed tryout only people who are legit about being on the team. He knows how well of a dancer I am but I almost didn't go but he was one of the reasons I went.
haha I'm trying really hard to hang out with my guy best friend alone but he always has basketball in other states.. anyways he's really the only guy I'd want to be in a relationship with but everyone thinks he's gay¿ it's so messed up. I try to hit up the less attractive guys from other schools but most of them think I'm weird it sucks.
Keep on trying, it doesn't matter if everyone says he's gay unless he says it himself it's probably not true and if he does turn out to be gay it's even easier to ask him for a kiss because he's not Intrested in your gender and your friends so it'd be like him doing you a favor
I just feel like if I went for it our friendship would be over. I posted so many pictures of me and him on Instagram and used the word boyfriend soooo much that people actually thought we were dating. He's a jokester and everyone loves him so I can never tell when he's being serious or not.
Lmaoooo just try I do the same thing also I flirt and play around but play it off as I'm joking so no one knows da TRUTH he's probably a shy it's more or less like saying I love you and adding a "Or DO I" it creates suspense and confuses the person weather their joking or not
I've texted him so many times saying how much I like him and I've hinted at it and he just replies back saying I like you too. This normally makes me really happy till I figure out he's joking. So then we joke around because he'll never know the truth of how much I love him. It really sucks
He's not Intrested in you then he's laying you down by being polite is a way you could interpret this or you could tell him that your serious and that'll probably make him respond in a different way
I normally joke around about the liking part but one time I told him I was serious but he didn't believe me. Every time we see each other we hug or something. His smile always gets bigger and he stops talking to whoever and hugs me and stuff. People have taken pictures and videos of us saying GOALS or whatever and its weird and off topic but its like we're dating but we're just really good friends😪
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If I were to do it with boys at school, it would ruin my reputation. Soooo not with boys in my state but I do sext a lot of boys in other states.
and does it turn u on
Yes I normally video chat and do things on camera...
sounds hot to me
when was the last time that u did it and was it good
It's been a few weeks and it was with my "boyfriend" it wasn't the most fun, but it sure made him happy.