I don't get it. I'll go from being super into a girl, but then I somehow don't feel as strongly for her. This seems to happen every time when I'm about to ask someone out. Does this ever happen to you?
I still want to ask this girl out, but I just don't feel as interested or excited. Just like night and day. I have been pretty stressed out lately and I haven't seen her for a while too. Could that be it or what?
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I am not a guy but from our point of view it happens a lot. Girls tend to not be as interested at first and then it grows, guys tend to be interested a lot then it goes away. Sucks for us. But, I do know a lot of guys that put girls on the back burner when other stuff is going on in their lives, so maybe that is it, you just aren't thinking about that now. Also, is it the chase you are attracted to? By the time you ask them out do you know they are interested so the chase is over? If so, eventually you will meet someone you do not lose interest for no matter what. They will do the exact right things for you to stay interested in them. But, I feel this is common.1