We work on the same place so pretty much everyday, we see each other.
Almost everytime that we're not together, whenever my FB status gets 'Active' - you know, the green circle on the chat - she asks me "who are you talking to?".
It may seem innocent, and I sometimes don't mind, but this is becoming annoying. I am getting a feeling that she just sits there, waiting for it to get green and bam, ask.
I'm not hiding anything to her, and more importantly, most of the time I don't have anyone talking to - just browsing my wall.
Ofcourse I do tell her whether I am talking to someone or not, but then after, she would show some coldness.
I don't want a workaround on how to hide - I don't need to hide my status on chat.
I just want to know if it's typical to be annoyed when asked this question or is it just me.
Most Helpful Girl
Does she ask who you are texting on your phone too? It would be weird if she is only distrustful on fb. Are you friends with exes on there? Did you used to message her and don't anymore? It is weird that she asks you that every single time too. Yeah it would be annoying but if that is the only time she has trust issues it isn't that bad. She could act like a super psycho ALL the time and question everything you do, that gets annoying. Have you ever asked her why she questions that every time?1
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Most Helpful Guy
Hehe... as soon as i saw "we work in the same place"... i just went "yes, its annoying" lol...
dude, thats insecure to the max... i'd start with a threat for her to back off and if she doesn't, i'd make good on the threat. so next time my light comes on, she can't ask me anything.0