was supposed to go on this date with some guy today, i woke up 5 mins after the scheduled time to meet. and i texted him and said i'm leaving the house rn and i'm sorry for the wait. he's already there waiting for me. i don't really want to meet him. and i feel horribly sick rn and depressed and i feel like i can't really talk to anyone. i don't really feel chemistry towards him but he seem like a cool person. would it be rude to cancel plans with him even though he's already there? either we just reschedule or something. cause I don't know if i can even think straight right now. ik, i'm such a rude person for wanting to flake on him but I don't know what else to do.
Most Helpful Guy
"Is it rude to cancel a date at the very last minute?"
Of course it is. Imagine you were getting ready, driving somewhere and waiting for another person and 5 minutes in you get a call that it gets cancelled?
"i don't really feel chemistry towards him but he seem like a cool person."
Why did you make out a date to begin with? This is at least as rude as cancelling the date last minute.0
Most Helpful Girl
to me yes!0