I recently asked out a girl, who I had seen several times at my college library but had never talked to before. She rejected me and told me she doesn't know me therefore won't go out with me.
It doesn't make much sense to me. Because when you ask someone out you dont do it to get intimate, cuddle, make out etc you do it so you can talk and exchange stories. The purpose of the date is to get to know one another.
So why do I have to know her before I can take her out and get to know her?
Most Helpful Girl
omg do you hear yourself... so alright lets say i was that girl as example, so i have seen you around college but i don't have a clue who you are... your just an another guy walking around college no big deal, but then you ask me out and to me that will seem weird to me because the only thing you know about me is that i go to this college and how i look, now i will most likely think you think i am attractive or pretty because you did not even bother to get to know my personality first my the way i looked was enough for you to even ask me out , without knowing me and i wouldn't know if you are a creep or any other bad because i know nothing about you besides it would easy for me to think you could easily like or chase other girls because you just because you happened to like the way they looked
... BOY there is more then meets the eye, just think about it, also it might seem scary but why dont you just start as friends?0
Most Helpful Guy
what she said was code word for " i dont find you attractive" if you're attractive you get away with shit like that, also try chatting online first i've noticed girls talk a lot but when its time to do they are too much cowards and would rather know the guy 100% so i dont bother unless i know her through someone.0