I met a guy on Tinder and I have gone on 3 dates or meetups or what have you with him. I am 18 and he is 24. He is really cute, tall, extremely funny and smart, starting his masters degree in chemistry. He bulled me and gave me a hard time, lots of teasing and all but we never made out or anything.
Here's the problem: yesterday he wanted to get beer and make a small campfire and just hangout. I did not feel comfortable accepting his beer or making a campfire. We never ended up making the fire and I started texting my friend a lot while I was with him. At the end of our hangout I asked him why he was on Tinder and what he was looking for. He said he was on Tinder because he likes trolling girls.
Afterwards I texted him because I wanted to keep the conversation alive and after a few exchanges he was saying how it seemed I was moving into relationship territory. I just replied "Ew" to that, because I didn't know what to say.
I kept on joking around with him over text and he started dropping one word replies. He then suddenly replied with a longer text message saying that he has a two strike rule when it comes to girls disrespecting him/being rude and that I broke that rule. He said it was my texting in front of him. I replied sincerely and apologized twice and felt really bad, but he never replied and to this day I have not heard from him.
Am I doomed? Is there anything I can do?
Help!! Guy is ignoring me now!! But I think it's my fault and I don't know what to do?
What Guys Said 5
Its totally rude and disrespectful to text when you are with him, say sorry and ask him out.
If he says no then learn your lesson and move on.0
Lmao you wasn't even in a position where you could mess with him, A lesson for you, don't get ahead fo yourself & think you own someone expecially that his 24 and you're a kid of 180
you totally fucked up in the part were you said 'eww'.0
yes you can find another guy who cares for you and that want to be with you that respects you and who will eventually lov you and leave the looser alone. let him be cute by his self.
you deserve better0
What Girls Said 1