I know how mad this sounds, but in the past.. I was the girlfriend who used to call or text their boyfriend every 15 minutes so i knew they weren't cheating.. because not much could get done in 15 minutes right?
Did anyone else used to be like this? I've slowly learnt, that if someones going to cheat, they'll cheat and keeping tabs on a partner is not only mentally unstable, mentally draining and crazy.. but if they're going to do it.. that won't stop them!
Most Helpful Guy
wow that's crazy. if you feel like you have to prevent someone from cheating then you either have the wrong partner or need to straighten things out within yourself before dating0
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend knows that I got tainted in the past, and sometimes I did worry he would cheat, but thank fuck for snapchat lol, he usually snaps me all the time which is actually really cute and thoughtful. When I was with an ex, I text him all the time but he was literally at work so he couldn't respond, when he got off work (3 am) I would be sleeping usually, so he didn't text me as much-- he always told me what he was doing like after work would go to his mates bar (a female) and I was 100% okay with it because I knew her and didn't think he would ever hook up with her.. because tbh she was filthy inner and outer, but he did. So yes if they're going to cheat they definitely are.0