I've been talking to a guy for a week now- he's been hanging out everyday now. Wanting to do anything catering to me etc. Saying to me- what do you want to do? anything you want honey. telling me his interests in a relationship all kinds of bs. We haven't gotten intimate yet though I told him he can touch me, but he hasn't made a move. We've just gone out to dinner. I had tickets to a show so I asked if he wanted to go. We went, and after were supposed to go to dinner. We went to a place then he said "its too loud." So we decided on somewhere else. As we were passing the place, he decided not there, and kept driving. I asked him to go back, take an exit- he just did what he wanted to do.
he started dominating me and blamed it on lack of sleep. I'm sure he was being a jerk. Then he said ok let's go there, then later said can we do this another time- and took me home. He seemed sexually frustrated. I asked him what was going on, he said he was fine but tired. To me, he acted weird out of character etc..
The next day, he told me he likes me so much, and wants to get to know everything about me. He says he's thankful for talking to me. We had plans, but last min he says his dad is having heart pains and he's taking him to the hospital. Again sounds like a load of bs. He had me waiting all night without an update. I call him shady etc. Then he says his phone died and he got home late. Then I tell him he should've texted me at least. I say next time u go to the hospital, take a picture. He said sure i will and it'll be the last u hear from me. You don't trust anyone etc. It's a lie of course.. is he lying or being defensive? then he admitted that he was attracted n wanted sexual things with me.. i told him i was ok with it..
Guy is upset I asked for proof of his excuses- is he lying?
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you need to tone it down a bit there... its only been a week and you are asking for evidence and stuff... yowza.. thats paranoia and big turn off for guys...
sexually frustrated or not, sometimes you just have to let stuff go, whether its true or you think its a lie, especially when its this early. my ex used to do the same, now she's my ex, and 4 relationships later she came to ask me why she keeps getting dumped even if she's "pretty" and i had to explain this same thing to her.0
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