I like her, and have done everything to try and show her. I even told her I cared and she pretty much knows I like her. We hung out today, and went to the mall, too lunch etc. However, I noticed she was texting a guy she was talking about earlier. Flash back: She said the two of them weren't dating but it looked like it was heading that way. Then, she stopped talking about him and was getting flirty with me, and we hung out, and she said she was having fun and we should do more stuff etc. Back to now, while we were hanging out, I noticed her texting him, and then later in the night, she says she's going to hang out with him. I feel like I'm fighting an uphill battle. Should I just stop trying romantically and only see her as a friend now? or keep trying?
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What you really should be doing instead here , dear Is... Stop trying and move on and find someone more deserving.
She is keeping you now as some "Back pocket boyfriend" while she still is Trying to Head in his direction. She is Mistaking your own kindness for weakness as well, and as long as you try to hang in There, you will have To... Share.
Start showing her you are no one's fool and give her a Chance to see that you too can find a Little... Romance.
Don't continue to be an Enabler for every Guy she will Try.
Good luck. xx0