ok here it goes. I am 20 year old virgin guy who never got any girlfriend. I am insanely shy and horribly afraid of approaching girls due to fear of rejection. Whenever I see a girl the first thing comes to my mind is that she might be easy but she is way out of my league. Well when I was 16 I had a junior in my school who seemed to be very cute and simple [two years younger to me]. Soon I added her on social media and we became casual friends and eventually got real close. I won her heart and we talked for couple of years thereafter. She got a clue that I was into her many times but I just changed the topic. I was so much into her that I would indirectly help her in every way possible, unconditionally. And I would be so happy when she talks to me, soon she started getting proposals and she used to shared that to me too. Her friends said we were meant to be together but she didn't do anything on that. Later she accepted someone's proposal and got into relationship I felt like hanging myself. She then broke up and talked to me due to which I comforted her. Soon it became a thing that she gets into relationship breaks up and then I would comfort her. I was really sad but happy for her whatever she does. Currently she's been in a relationship for like 4 years and she still talks to me, some part of me dies everyday. Its like its meant to be like that to me. Now the situation is that I want someone to comfort me, someone I can trust, share, love. My friends tell me that my looks and physique is something which could easily attract any girl. I just dont know. I do respect women like gentleman and protect women wherever possible, my friends say i would really get someone who actually deserves me, I know I can never get her back as she never understood how much I loved her for 9 years and still do love her the same way. She changed so much , but still I could not stop loving her. Some say I am a looser, boring, nerd, etc Am i normal?
Most Helpful Girl
Because you let her friend zone you. Yes, she friend zoned you. I know you were shy and afraid to make a move. You should have tried. Rejection would suck but at least you'd know her feelings and you could move on earlier.
But hey, past is past and you can't do anything to change it. From now on, if you like a girl, drop subtle hints. Let her know that you are doing things for her because she's special for you. Don't let her friend zone or even worse, Bhai zone you.
Move on and try to find someone new.0
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Most Helpful Guy
Lol your only 20 I'm almost 11 yes older and a fucking virgin how do you think I feel? Its gotten so bad I even thought of saving up for a sex doll. Not a blow up doll but one of those expensive ones. I'm sure you'll get a girlfriend and sex before me.0