Sexual Relationships
+1 y

Did I just get rejected because of my biracial child?

Long story short, I'm a single mother who had a child with a Black man. He abandoned me while I was pregnant and never heard from him again. First couple of years was really difficult for me but I got helped from my family to get back on my feet.

Now back to my question, I meet this white guy at a megacon Convention. He was good looking, funny and we shared a lot of things in common. We went out for lunch, everything was ok until I showed him a picture of my child then he got really uncomfortable and he never called me back after the lunch we had together.

I don't even know why I even care, white men aren't even my preference but I'm just shocked...
0 2

Most Helpful Girls

  • Times are changing. Christianity, Paganism, Morality, Common Sense, and alpha men are making a come back and it is wonderful. As a female myself, who happens to be in a very diverse law school where many of the white females date outside their race, white men do not like this. I refuse to date until I finish with college. Though I'm still a virgin, I see the appeal of sex. But due to many females sleeping with black and brown men, more men are contracting STDs because of this. Most white females that have mixed race babies such as yourself are single parents. Even most black females are. You are a single parent because you had a baby with a black man. That is your fault. You would have a good life right now, with a loving white man, taking care of you and your child together if only you chose DO NOT BLAME YOUR CHILD. Blame yourself. It is going to be a difficult road for you. As much as it will hurt you, put your child up for adoption. It honestly is not worth it. I'm not saying do not have a relationship with your child, but let a black family, or bi-racial family that has been married for years raise your child. It will be much better off. Then find you a good white man, and stop paying the toll.

    • hahaha this is the stupidest thing I've ever heard, please get off the internet. This stuff happens because you choose the wrong person not because they are black or white. If the guy gets uncomfortable around mixed children (which is weird) that's his problem not yours.

    • @Sonicwords Stats dont lie 80% of children in black community are to single mothers , black men dont believe in sticking around and raising their children , they would rather spend all their money on stupid jewelry and collection of expensive Jordan's.

  • I agree with these other answers, I think it was just the fact you have a child in general not so much his race. A lot of guys are not comfortable dating women with children for a number of reasons.

    They might not be comfortable around kids, they don't want to become attached to a child that isn't theirs in case things go bad between the two of you, if they don't have children of their own yet they might feel awkward that you do, they might think they're too young for kids or they never want to have kids, or they even get the idea that you're looking for someone to be your child's father and he isn't interested in supporting a child that isn't his.

    Either way, your son is a part of you and if a man can't accept him for any reason then he's not a good fit for you, white, black, or any other race.

  • I think the most likely answer is that it was just a picture of your child full stop. There are some men out there (and women) who don't want to be involved with a single parent, and that's completely fine. Better to not do it than mess it up.

    The only other thing I can think of is maybe he felt like you would expect more from him? I know the phrase is a bit of a joke but "once you go black you'll never go back" but statistically black men are more... well endowed down there. Maybe he didn't think he could measure up?

    Or, maybe he's just a dick. Probably best just to move on from this one.

  • It could have been. But it might also have been the simple fact that you have a child, biracial or not.

Most Helpful Guys

  • So... You had a kid with a darkie and figured you'd live happily ever after? That was your first mistake. These stories are all too common. We don't care about cock size or some other dumb shit like that. We look at the decisions a woman has made in the past. You procreated with a black and screwed up your bloodline. Who want's to look like a cuck holding hands with you and little obama? Don't be delusional little girl, your family tried to warn you -- you didn't listen. Suffer the consequences of a modern-day coalburner and enjoy the partial toll you're paying right now. Your future looks grim. lmao.

  • Hate to break it to you but its not just white men like the people below are pointing out.
    Its pretty much all men. No self respecting man wants to spend time, money, and effort is in any way contributing to the continued spread of another man's genes just to be with a girl with obviously bad judgement. Who wants someone like that helping raise their kids?
    Lower your standards and get yourself a beta male.
    This is coming from a Mexican. Its obviously not just white men that avoid you. Otherwise you'd have found another man to have another "biracial" child by now.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

If you recognised the person the other side of a gloryhole would you tell them?
Guy I'm with is not playing with my boobs. What should I do?
Is corn the issue?
If youq could walk around in public naked, would you?

What Girls & Guys Said

11 39

  • perhaps or perhaps he doesn't want to date a single mother. or perhaps there are other reasons, like the date didn't go so well.

  • Doubt it was about race, but more about the guy not wanting to be involved with a woman who has a kid. Which there's nothing wrong with that, but he should have been honest and upfront. How he left so abruptly is rude, and absolutely selfish. For that I am sorry.

  • If he didn't know you had a child before hand, I'd be willing to bet it was just the fact that you had a child.

    It also could be your child's age.

  • Some of these answers say its because youve been with a black man. I hope white men aren't really that insecure, i know my dad nor any other white men in my family are. i think it had to do with you being a single mother. I hope that is why.

    • No, it's definitely the race thing. A white woman who has ever been with a black man disgusts me and I'm not in the minority of white men as far as this is concerned.

  • Maybe it wasn't your child's race, maybe it was the fact that you have a child. Not every guy wants to date a single mother unfortunately.

  • Maybe he sensed what you just admitted to us. White men aren't your preference.

    • That's a long shot.

    • @vishna The vibe she sent out that white guys aren't as sexually desirable to her as black guys are, is the reason he stopped calling. She need to find a cuck if she want to marry a white guy. Blacktowhite. net is the meeting place for that lifestyle

    • The guys instincts about here were right. He was right to not waste any time on somebody like her.

  • Did you tell him before showing the picture that you have a child?

  • More likely than not it was due to the fact that you had a child itself and not because of the child's color. You are at a stage in life where you need a man who is more responsible and willing to be a father. You aren't going to meet that type of guy at a comic book convention.

  • Did he know you were a mom before that? Most guys don't want anything to do with a single mom.

  • don't worry about them. find a goal in life. make your child an amazing kid.
    don't even try white men. they're jealous cunts, they see white women as their property and get annoyed at the natural fact that better men than them are taking us.
    don't even bother with white guys in the first place hun, I think most non racist people have got your back <3

    • Sure, better men, like that child's dad, right? You can't hide statistics. Just read and think by yourself. I respect when she chose have a relationship with that guy. But she must respect if any guy doesn't want take care of a biracial child. My point of view is: If you enjoy cumming inside a p**ssy you must be responsible and take care of that baby.

  • It's much likelier that he just doesn't want a single mother of any kind.

    That said, there is a lot of racial jealousy in society. Why would you want to go out with a racist?

    That said, in this guy's defence, there is one way in which it would not be racist to be open to dating a single mother but only one whose child is not of a different race. That is that the guy might simply not be comfortable if other people were able instantly to tell that the child is not his.

  • Maybe it wasn't the race but just that you had a child.
    Some guys don't like women who already have children

  • Yeah probably. A lot of people do not want a relationship with a woman who has a child.

  • Out of curiosity l, what is your race? And 2ndly, never think that the next guy is the right one just because you and that guy share a lot of things in common. That was a good test tho... gotta say... Cuz now you know that guy you met, is not the one for you. I can go on about the single mom thing, but I'm not, but I will say that maybe he just didn't feel comfortable by seeing a woman who already has a kid. Maybe he felt that he will be tricked into paying for the childs stuff aswell. But then again, he might of felt like he wasn't worth being with Cuz your child is mixed

  • This has nothing to do with race! He didn't want you because you had a child lmao

  • You couldn't of gotten this far in life without getting rejected for being a single mother... Get use to it, it's going to keep happening.

  • Honey it could be a lot of reasons. :-\

  • Something that white women such as yourself need to understand very clearly is that the overwhelming majority of white men will not touch you after you have been with a black man, or a man of any other race.
    For most white men, that is the ultimate deal breaker.

  • that's so damn awfull i don't know what to tell you guy is an idiot

  • Only he would know for sure, but I think that finding out you are a mum is probably the reason he acted like he did. He is obviously too immature to deal with dating someone with a child. He proved that in the way he treated you, not even having the guts to talk to you about it.

  • Show More (30)

Latest Questions

My boyfriend feels bad the sex wasn't that great, is he going to recover?
He goes soft with me?
Women, if you were men would you care about women's body count?
Why he sent me video in the shower 🧼🍆😜?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Did I just get rejected because of my biracial child?