My boyfriend has a girl friend whom he speaks about way too often and brings her up in our convos randomly. I used to be fine with it until he mentioned he and her had a thing for eachother back then but she dumped him. I can't help but feel like he likes her more than a friend even though he denies it. I've already spoken to him about it and he swears that he only mentions her a lot because she knows so much about him. He doesn't mention his bestfriend (who is a guy) nearly as much as her. Things he's told me about her just make me feel uncomfortable. Any the real question I want to ask is... has this ever happened to you? and what did you do about it?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes listen to your gut. There is more to this than meets the eyes and feelings do resurface from time to time and could rekindle that also. Of course I have felt this way before someone and we dated for a while and we felt we were better as friends after and the feelings resurfaced after a while and I started chasing her again. The point it, he and her probably do have an unfinished business, but if he truly cares about you and you love his as much as he does, you'd give him a benefit of a doubt until you have suffice evidence or proven otherwise.1
Most Helpful Girl
He may have a crush on her, but he probably doesn't admit it even to himself. I'd be mad about it if I were you as well.0