I am just so uncomfortable with it, I don't know why. He tells me stuff about her and now he wants me to meet her, but I'm not sure if I want to even continue this thing. I saw some of her IG selfies in his bed wearing only his shirt and I just don't believe him I think he's sleeping with her. He told me she doesn't have many friends and that she comes over when her mom's boyfriend comes over their place because they live in a one room apartment. He swears he never touched her. Besides that he treats me good our relationship is good.
Most Helpful Guy
I would understand if my girlfriend was bothered by this. It doesn't matter if he has touched her or not. He has to be mature about this and understand where you are coming from. Now, I believe him mainly because I have female friends who sleep over all the time and I have never EVER touched 'em or even thought about them sexually. However, if I was dating and my girlfriend was bothered by this, I have to make a choice.. Either end the relationship, or stop letting those girls sleep over.
You feel how you feel and you should expect your partner to be considerate to your feelings. He can call it whatever he wants, jealousy, insecurity, inflexibility, or anything else. That doesn't change the fact that it is bothering you and something has to happen here.
I think you are doing the right thing communicating your thoughts with him. I hope the situation gets resolved soon. Good luck. : )1
Most Helpful Girl
... would I mind? Of course I would. It wouldn't matter to me if he says they're not sleeping together, or that he's permitting her to spend the night plus wear his shirts, and post pictures of that on IG, because of one reason or another. I'd tell him that's neither mine nor his concern. That's by far crossing over the line over what's acceptable when you're in a relationship.1