I get a pretty decent number of messages on online dating but whenever I try to initiate the conversation I almost never hear back. I try to mention something specific in the profile as opposed to a generic "Hey how's it going?". Guys do you like it when the women messages you first?
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It's fine. I think that's how I met my wife. She wrote to me on match. com. I didn't get many messages from women, so I responded to them all, even if to say "thanks, I don't think it would work."
The truth about online dating is that people respond as much to the picture as the message. Make sure you have a good picture posted. Not a mirror selfie, and FFS not a "Glamour Shot".0