I've been seeing this guy for over 2 months now and it started of great, he would always message me first we talked on every social media platform at the same time all day and he would always make effort to see me. For the past month he's been acting slightly off and replying hours in between so i asked him about it earlier on and he said it was just the stress of his exams and he would be fine later on. The last time i saw him was 2 weeks ago and it went so well then he was acting like we were a proper couple and that he really liked me. I was meant to be seeing him on Sunday but he said a few days before he can't to see family so i said next week? and he said he can't because he's watching a sporting game so I just said oh right fair enough. Now he's ignored my message saying "thank you" or something like that 3 days ago and hasn't sent me any other messages and has even said to my friend that we were good when she asked about me however i asked her to mention to him that i said we haven't been speaking much and he ignored that message. He started typing a message to me aswell and then stopped and didn't send anything so I don't know what to do, we used to talk every day and I haven't even seen him in 2 weeks so I don't know why he's suddenly changed like this. Also, I read his messages to my friend yesterday (who is dating his best friend) and he was being completely fine like his usual self and replying to her very fast which he hasn't done to me in a long time. I'm so confused and don't know what to do and don't want to message him as I dont want to look needy or annoying, please help!!
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In my opinion, the guy got complacent. You're still around, and his effort has dropped off. Therefore, he figures he does not need to do as much as before to keep you as his significant other.
This is normal (especially for guys). You put in more effort to fancy someone new than you would to fancy someone you've been with for a while.1
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