By preference here more to physical. Would you feel insecure or worthless to be with her?
Guys, would you still date a girl if you know that you aren't her 'real' preference?
What Guys Said 32
I married a girl knowing I wasn't her type upfront, and was old enough to not feel any sense of insecurity. I was convinced I would change her mind and broaden her horizons, and it seems to have succeeded.
Generally a lot of people who try to define a type of guy/girl they want to be with down to very specific details will find that the true types of people they're capable of loving fit a much broader range than what they narrowly defined.
I learned that myself dating a range of women who never quite fit my ideal specifications, often with deviations here and there, only to find that many changed my mind for the better. My list of ideal qualities for a woman became smaller and smaller with each girl I dated.1
if she's dating outside her preference because of you, then... one should be proud to be so special.4
That's probably one of my worst fears when dating a girl. If I heard that, I'd be heart-broken, and I probably would break up with her.1
Yes. Many people grow closer and have a greater appreciation for each other both emotionally and physically as time goes on. That can't happen unless you date for a while.0
I wouldn't still date her. I could never date a girl who has a problem with my physical appearance..1
No I would not, it makes no sense dating someone who isn't your preference.1
Yes I would, "preference" or "type" is nothing more than past data on traits that said person has found attractive.0
Probably not but it would depend on how different I am from her "real type".0
Yes, but only if she's still attracted to me and not just after money/stability, I'm not some f*cking ATM/servant.0
No, she has to be my type for me to consider dating. I'm really binary, either she's my type or not.0
If she was still interested in dating me despite me not meeting her physically preferences then yes. I'd give it a try and see where it goes.0
Depends on how much I like this specific girl. For most girls I wouldn't be happy with that. Been there before and it can be unpleasant.0
Yes, as long as she is still attracted to me, but if she literally doesn't find me attractive, then I probably won't. The chances of it working out would be pretty slim in today's world of myriad choices being at a girl's fingertips.0
Depends if I think her preferences could change.0
Only to make me her preference, and then drop her.0
If it got sexual, I'd not her. If not, I wouldn't.0
Only if I return the "favor"0
Eh most likey she inst my real presence either so yeah its all about compromise0
I wouldn't date her if I knew I wasn't her preference.. why waste time..0
If she's willing to have sex with me everyday, then I'll make her my type.0
Nope because she won't appreciate me0
I would go on dates with a girl that isn't shallow.0
of course pussy is pussy0
Alpha FUCKS/BETA BUCKS. By late 20's women start sacrificing on physical attraction for money, stability and willingness to commit.
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What Girls Said 1
I'd feel kinda awkward being with a guy if I knew he didn't like how I look, but I think guys don't usually worry about that stuff as much as girls do.0
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