I am a 19 yo girl who has slept with 7 people in total now - 5 guys 2 girls - so I consider myself rather experienced. Im perfectly comfortable with this by the way.
However, I had a date with a 24 yo guy yesterday who happens to be completely inexperienced and quite shy even with talking about the subject. He doesn't go out much, Im at my students association several times a week. He doesn't go to parties, I throw them.
We had great chemistry, did nothing but talk for 4 hours straight.
However, would he judge me for my past? We're both not religious. And if we were to move on, do you think it would be a big deal for him if I were his first? What if I decide I don't like him soon after?
Less importantly but also crossed my mind, I rarely go without for a month. While we're still just dating and not in a relationship, would it be bad if I still see other people?
Most Helpful Guy
He might resent it if you sleep with other guys while you're going on dates with him. He might judge you for your past, or he might not, no point in speculating about that, you'll just have to wait and see. Just try it, there's a chance it'll all work out, if you don't try it you know the chance is 0...1
Most Helpful Girl
If he asks then he asks and thats up to him really to decide if he wants to be with you, however sometimes it's not a turn off and doesn't matter. It depends on how he views his experience right- so if he holds his virginity important to him then he will take you seriously, but sometimes these things happen nd feelings either become stronger or weaker. You should just be upfront with him on your expectations.1