Yea so when I first meet a girl or whatever I have no game because nervous and I think this literally kills me.
I'm only funny and cool until after I grt comfortable and cool down.
What can I do? Getting tired of getting rejected and I feel bitter tbh
Most Helpful Girl
Talk to her like you would talk to any of your guy friends and stop worshipping her ass.0
Most Helpful Guy
Alcohol is a kind of bad suggestion but it can do the trick. Won't necessarily help you meet nice girls, but it'll take away some of that nerve-wracking part. For me it was the "training wheels" I needed when I first started hooking up with girls, but I was getting more hook-ups than girlfriends (I wanted a girlfriend).
A better route might be to network and socialize a bit, make lots of friends (both genders). Then you get comfortable hanging out with girls in a totally friendly context and viewing them and talking to them like ordinary people without turning into a nervous wreck. When you like a girl a bit and find her attractive and you're in a nice conversation with her, hit her up and ask her out right then and there. No need to wait months to do it.0