I done everything, I worked on myself, joined dating sites , put myself out there, approached all types of women, etc, and still can't get a date. I'm not socially awkward nor am I overweight, I keep myself up as in terms of clothes and hygiene and I'm not unconfident so I know that doesn't have anything to do with it I also don't think I'm a bad looking guy at all.
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If you're good looking, confident and not socially awkward I have a hard time believing "no women in your country" want you. Either you're lying to yourself and there's something wrong with what you're doing/saying/what you look like or how you're acting, or you're approaching the wrong kinds of women (already taken, out of your league, not ready for relationships, not having any common interests etc). I don't think you'll find any women in a different country if you can't even score in your own.
It seems like guys who "put themselves out there" excessively end up going about it the wrong way. What they say and do becomes rehearsed, stiff, boring and predictable. Like "ah I bet I'm the 20th girl he has approached today". Like reading a script. It's noticeable that you might not even treat women as human beings anymore, just objects to approach and get rejected by. Or they're too desperate and aggressive, which makes the girl feel uneasy and unsafe. Like in a lot of those "guy gets rejected by 100 girls" videos on youtube, the guy just blocks the girl in the street, doesn't let her leave, kinda forces her to respond, becomes bitter when she walks away (shocking, not everyone has the time for strangers in the streets) etc.
So think long and hard about what you're doing and saying to the girls you try to approach and message. 90% of the time, if you as a confident and good-looking guy get rejected, chances are you just said something really off-putting, or you didn't manage to get a nice conversation flow, without even realizing it yourself. I think I'm pretty good at keeping up conversations myself, but sometimes when I chat with guys on tinder and I read what they've said to me, it's just like "what the fuck am I even supposed to reply to this?" you know. Analyze yourself a bit more.2
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I know a LOT of couples where the woman is from another country, mostly Philippines, but also South/Cent America, Russia, Indonesia, and Vietnam. I have known a few guys that have tried a Thai wife, but only one worked out.
Filipinas complain about the men over there, and say they would never marry one. Their husbands complain about the women here, and say they would never marry one, or again. There is no language barrier, so it iseasy (you do have to learn that they point with their lips, because if you don't respond they will yell out you for not paying attention).
If you are white, have a job, are not abusive, and are not obese, you can get a Filipina wife. Piece of cake.
I have a tough time with Russian women, and I can speak Russian ok. I think it is the communist attitude thing.
I personally find Indonesian women lovely, and many speak perfect English. But they are mostly Moslems and their culture is harder for most Americans to understand. Vietnamese and mainland Chinese women are usually horrible in English, and I have the same problem with Chinese ones as I do with Russians.
I had one Thai girlfriend a long time ago, who was a PhD student, a tall skinny girl, but I couldn't imagine living with her, she would drive me nuts if I had to spend more than three days at a time with her.
If you speak Spanish, you can find some nice Mexican and beautiful Colombian women. If you don't then it is iffy.
Here are some other differences. If you meet a Filipina, she will immediately introduce you to her extended family and they will tell you how beautiful your mestizo children will be. They will also instruct you how loyal to their families Filipinas are (that means you pay for it). If you meet a Thai woman, she will hide you from her friends and family, as she does not want them to think she is a prostitute. Eventually she might introduce you after she gets her immigration visa. If you meet an Indonesian woman, she will not tell her family about you until you are engaged, but she will immediately introduce you to her gaggle of friends and what they are talking about that you don't understand is that she is telling them how big of a penis you have compared to Indonesian guys, and her friends are saying she is so lucky and will ask if you have any single friends back in America. Many Jakarta women have a fantasy of sleeping with a white guy before they get married, and I can attest, if they didn't make it they will drop the before part.0