Please don't judge. So I've been talking to this guy for about 2 months, we met on Instagram. We both do photography for fun so that's what initially brought us together. we instantly hit it off and I really like him and he feels the same. The issue is he lives in New Zealand while I live in New York City... We started talking about seeing eachother, it would be easier to go to him because he has his own place so I wouldn't have to get a hotel or anything. I'm really worried about just being on a plane by myself for hours, I've never been on a plane before because I'm afraid to fly. How do I tell my parents I'm going on the other side of the world to meet a guy, they would laugh and not take it seriously.