We've been dating for 3 months and he hinted we are exclusive in the past, but I just had to confirm with him. His first reaction was OF COURSE WE ARE! On the same day he introduced me to his roommate and we all chatted for an hour or so.
He is going through a lot recently, however I feel like he is slipping away. As he didn't say have a good day when I left the next morning, kiss was shorter than usual. All he said was see ya.
He did text me that night to thank me for my birthday present and said it's very sweet of me x Our text used to be at least 1 page long...
I responded and sent him some photo of that day. he responded part of the text and thanked me for the photo and said he is glad I didn't see the naughty photo of us. x
I wrote back but was a bit close off as I didn't want to seem needy. I know he is very busy because he is going through several projects... it still makes me uneasy looking at those sign.
Most Helpful Guy
Didn't you say he is busy?
He said you are exclusive and that's not enough reassurance for you? He is going to dump your insecure ass soon.0
Most Helpful Girl
Many times when someone is 'Going through a lot recently' in their own lives, they get very Distracted and things can sure Change in a Heartbeat with some Defeat in a Dating situation. Even in a Real Relationship.
It has Happened to me here, dear, where I had a lot on my own plate and when I was with my husband Online, back home from Egypt and away from him, I was Not myself sometimes, I was very off in another world, where many times, i didn't feel myself nor Feel like being with him Many times when he woulkd come find me. It put a damper on our relationship. And with not always being there for him, it kept him more on his toes to always come looking for me or trying to communicate with me.
For now, being you Know that you both have been together for '3 months' and hopefully Counting, be patient and understanding, keep up the Open Lines of Convo as much as you can, and if there is Something that needs addressing, sit him down and have a talk so you can both stay on the same page.
And while you are at it, it's still New, Keep the Coals burning by always Trying to keep it New with him and You... Find little ways to Keep this Relationship a Chase and a Challenge so he knows that you are Not sitting around waiting for him neither. It's just one More Chore he may look forward to, even if and when he has Heavy loads with his own job.
Good luck. xx
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