So I'm 17 and a somewhat mixed (3/4 African-American and 1/4 white) guy and I seem to always get sluts. I know it's an offensive word but it's the truth. On the rare occasion that I attract a girl I attract a slut, who only dates black guys and has fucked 10+ black guys and doesn't care for my intelligence or my life, just the fact that I am black and she's only attracted to black guys. Everytime I'm interested in a girl she either isn't interested in me or she's a hoe. I've always wanted a girl who I am attracted to that likes me for me and not my blackness. A girl looking for a REAL relationship and not just a fuck buddy. Where can I find these girls that I've always wanted?
Most Helpful Girl
... If you want a girl looking for an actual relationship, you should probably stop spending time with girls who you know have been around the block and back. Meeting girls who aren't into that will take more effort and more work than just unzipping your pants and sticking it in, but where there's a will, there's a way.3
- Show AllShow Less
Most Helpful Guy
Are you familiar with the idea of the two Marys? It describes how women are often portrayed, honored like Mary, Jesus's mother and Mary, the prostitute (also from the bible). It's the idea that if a woman is sexual she's a slut, but if she's motherly than she's revered. And it doesn't allow for gray area.
It seems like you're portraying all these girls as the same, they're all sluts. If you want a girl who's going to like you for you, maybe you should start there. You should try not looking at these girls as all the same and instead see them as individuals. Maybe than you won't fall for the girl who can't see past your skin color.0