Do you think men get spoiled if you text a lot in the first few dates? Let's say you never initiate but he texts you daily and you text back and forth. Would this make a man lazy after 4 dates or so? I would think if he really likes you it wouldn't matter and he'll still want to see you.
If you pull away and don't respond so much will that put a guy in his place?
Most Helpful Guy
only if its like the only way you communicate with them and it becomes almost obsessive in nature , than I could see a problem developing1
Most Helpful Girl
This is something that should be talked about with whom ever you choose to date. Your better off communicating face to face, then by texting. What matters is that they try to text you. But you need to do this every single day. I can't live with that. I need my space, and I have things to do. I often see it as clingy. I would not continue a relationship where I don't see us advancing to a more serious step beyond a relationship.0