Guy 1: very very handsome, he's sweet and cute and treats me nicely, but he's on vacation where there's no wifi so contact will be slim to none for the next 2 months and I'm not sure how much he likes me.
Guy 2: very handsome as well, sweet, but he's been around and he's been an asshole to other females in the past, he says he really likes me and that he's trying to change and that's why he wants to take things slow because he doesn't trust himself yet.
I like both of them a lot and i see boyfriend potential in both these guys, but i don't want to lead either one of them on and them dump them when I've finally made my decision, so i feel like i need to make my choice now...
Most Helpful Guy
Write down some questions that u would need specific answers to from anyone u would want to spend the rest of your life with.
Do u want kids
What's your goal in life
Do u want to get married one day
What do u think of guys that hit women
Just add to it all that you would want to know and give them to each one. Their answers will point you to one of them or away from both of them.0
Most Helpful Girl
Well. If there is one thing I have learned is that people that say they want to change usually don't, because they would have changed already. I mean, if "Guy 2" says he wants to take things slow that's somewhat reassuring, but to me it seems like "Guy 1" seems like the better alternative even if you have to wait for him (figure out if you find him worth the wait!). Of course you could stay in contact with "Guy 2" if he manages to pull himself together. But again, people have troubles changing...
I wish you the best of luck with whomever you chose.