I have noticed that I always have to make the first move when I am interested in a guy and a lot of guys that I am interested never makes the first move to ask me out when they seem to like me. Why is that? Is it ok for me to make the first move or should the guy make the first move? How can I let the guy know that I'm interested in him and want to date him without being too pushy?
Most Helpful Guy
It's better to be your own person than changing your ways only to be conventional. It's okay to make the first move if you truly like that person. You aren't pushy if you ask him out, in fact, any guy would find that flattering!
Most Helpful Girl
If it's you that has the crush, then you should probably make the first move rather than waiting on your crushes to do that for you. If you don't really know these guys that well. Take the time to talk to them and get to know them better, before you go diving in and asking them out. No point in doing that if they are already in relationships. Its the other way around for me, some guys like me but never seem to be able to act on it.6